Love
I like you. The simplicity of such an absurd phrase undermines the
very fundamental presence of love. Love shall not be the mere state of romanticism
spoiling an individual from the complexity of affection enterprises. It’s very
origin traces back to our humanity of being social animals, intercalated with kindness,
acceptance, and openness in the form of intimacy, commitment, and truthfulness,
respectively. Now the question becomes the justification to the need for
defining the various kinds of love one is willing to accept. And the importance
to understand the development of an explosive state of affection toward the clarification
of love.
As absurd as it is, I like you and I love you. This perspective is written as I
treasure the love through the most intricate and impressive friendship. The top
among the list who respects your romanticism, who treasures your good, and who carefully
admires and be thankful your ever-presence on the very special spot in my heart. Such love is
undeniable, immiscible, time-tenacious, and its subjective denial serves no
practical purpose except to fool ourselves. But shall we not interfere with this
special relationship jackpotted from the finest probability possible. Never
will I forget the happiness and peace achieved from within. With some very deep
thoughts, I declare at no fault; nor so do you. Such suffocating and
self-denying guilt are the consequences of not understanding the kind of love
to be cherished and preserved. In which the very human feeling is gutlessly thought
to be a 1 or 0 game: either being accepted or denied; either commit or bail;
either venture or remain. The lockage of a socially defined relationship becomes
the primary commitment in which two people shall deceitfully devote themselves into. The ideology
has never worked in real-life nor ever will. But except, we do not understand
the colorful spectrum and the tiny variation among love itself.
Instead, such internal reconciliation requires the puzzled individual to accept the
feeling of love in open arms. And to understand the meaning and extent of
love to be received. And to cherish this form of love with all aforementioned
qualities with your own consciousness. This acceptance does not require any rings
nor roses, rather a very inner, subtle, tranquil, and personal acknowledgment.
Such unbounded intensity is low but persists, obvious but intrigue, sudden but periodic. The
results of immense sincerity override all forms of the socially constructed definition
of love, fundamentally drop the need to assign any love to a specific position,
and the practice to predict its seemingly logical outcome. If genuine, love is
acknowledged, the boundary of expression is respected, mutual growth is persisted;
there is no need to worry about the outcome because a deceptive love is essentially
powerless. This love plays little role in the pursuit of romanticism, but I beg sorrowfully to make it not a simple form of temporary sentiment and affection. To be the permanent treasure and memory.
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